you're just a piece of the puzzle son, so you better find your place

insight via g-chat with a friend
him:Once I enumerate all the things I want in a woman, I' ve done priced myself out of the market. :-D me: yeah. that's the problem with you "discriminate" guys:) him: Hrm. Out of all the women I've met in the past 3 years, I think I"ve only been really attracted to like 3. And I get out a lot. him: It usually takes a while before I figure out if I'm intoa woman. . So it all works out. :-) me: or doesn't all work out! oh well. him: It is what it is. me: that's it.3:51 PM and it's all kind of a mystery to me:) him: Heh. One thing I learned is that girls like it when you're kind of an asshole to them and project the bad boy thing. me: hmm. unfortunately a lot of girls do. it's so i dunno, counterproductive? or something3:56 PM i dunno. it's swagger, but it's not heart.3:57 PM him: I got the swagger. me: hahaha right. but isn't there a softer side too? ok not soft. but... something!3:58 PM him: Well, when they figure out there isn't, you're kind of bored with them anyways. ;-) me: what? you're bored with the girls?3:59 PM him: I don't generally date people for more than about 9 months. me: you lose interest? him: Generally. I'm fickle like that.