we've got a problem with no solution but to love and be loved

infidelities.

it's always the story in movies, TV.... makes me nervous.  on the one hand i lament at all my single 30+yr old Christian friends, why don't they open their eyes to what's around them and so on, life is short why waste these years ect, but then I think, man, marriage is permanent and in this consumer, throw away culture, we need everything going for us possible to make it last.  That it pays to be choosy.  How choosy, though? And about what things?   That's the problem.