this idea of balance and complimenting one another

how alike is too alike? thing is, i'm drawn to people that are like me. to whom i relate in a deep way. i'm kinda a mess, kinda free-form, and while i like people in my life that are organized, good planners, i also tend to find it a little irritating. too uptight is a major turn-off. so people that go with the flow, like me, are therefore more attractive to me. not sure entirely the type of guy i'm looking for...